Imagine with me that you stumble upon a spirit listing on a shop's website. The image you see is dreamy, the description makes your blood hot, and you can't stop thinking about it no matter how you try to distract yourself. You're obviously drawn to the spirit, but let's say that you decide to do an internet search about that spirit type. WHOA! *sound of breaks squealing* Everything you read is
bad or worse. This spirit must be wrong for you, right? You're a good person; you don't want an evil spirit in your family. Why would that conjurer even have such a bad spirit available? Why would you be drawn to it?
I will be honest and say that some religions work very hard at keeping
the spirits of the older religions in a bad place. They've taken the word "daemon" (which just meant "spirit" in Greek) and made it into a big, awful demon -- who wants to eat your soul and torture you. What we have to do is separate the bad press from the actual spirits. Many types of spirits were given awful reputations as newer religions came into an area. Not all Djinn are
bad. Not by a long shot. Are some Djinn evil? Sure, in the same way that
some humans are. You don't bring strangers into your home without good
references, a mutual friend, a reliable employer or other arrangements
that help you trust them. It is the same with spirits. That is the
primary role of a conjurer like me. I provide a reference. I don't let
anyone come through that I can't trust. Does that make sense?
In every race of spirits, just like with humans or animals, there are
good and bad. As humans, we carry prejudices about people who dress a
certain way or live in a certain area or practice a certain religion.
But not all of those people fit our prejudice. We can find friends and
lovers and business partners from those groups, if we are open to it --
and if we are clear in our needs.
My job, as a spirit conjurer, is to find a spirit for you that you can
share a bond of affection with -- one whose needs can be met by your
own. The relationship is a symbiotic one.
As always, though, I would say to trust your instinct. If you are turned
off by a spirit because of its reputation, it might not be a great
choice for you. If, however, you remain drawn to a certain type of
spirit *despite* their negative press, there is likely one of that type
who is a good, healthy, happy match for you.
I hope this helps. Thanks for challenging me to give a good explanation.
I am actually going to use a lot of what I have written here in a new
blog entry. =)